For me, I make a more earnest effort to get together with my loved ones (though I know I should do this all the time) to share Iftar, the breaking of the fast.
I have also been making a more earnest effort to make traditional Bangladeshi Ramadan meals. This consists of piaju, a onion and lentil fritter, chola boot, which I have no idea what the English would be, but that they look like black chickpeas, shorbot, which is basically lemonade, and moori, which bares resemblence to Rice Krispies. I have never liked moori, so I'll just have to omit that out of my deshi Ramadan meal.
Making the above brings me closer to home. Since I don't have another Muslim to share my Iftar meals with on a regular basis, making such traditional dishes gives me that much more comfort.
The piaju was actually a lot easier than I had thought:
Piaju (adapted from my mother's recipe)
1 cup split red lentils (washed and picked through and soaked for five hours)
1 medium red or white onion, thinly sliced
1 green onion, minced
1 clove garlic, minced
1 green chili, minced
1 inch piece ginger, minced
1-2 tablespoon besan (chickpea) flour
1-1 1/2 teaspoon each ground cumin and coriander
-ground lentils into a coarse meal
-mix meal together with all other ingredients
-heat vegetable oil, or other neutral oil in a heavy wok about 3 inches worth on medium-high
-using one tablespoon to scoop the mixture, push down on it with the back of a second spoon to form fritter
-gently using the second spoon, slide the fritter into the hot oil
-cook about 3 minutes per side until crispy and red in colour on each side
-using slotted spoon lift out and place on paper towel lined plate
-eat while still warm and crispy!

Another recipe, though not traditionally a Ramadan meal, is chotpotti. I've always felt chotpotti to be a little daunting. My mom gave me very specific steps in order to make this just right. I was forbidden to use pre-ground spices. I was told to use tamarind pulp that I was to soak and strain myself, etc. But the end result of the chickpea and potato dish which is topped with onions, cilantro, tomatoes and boiled egg turned out so perfect, so exactly like my mother's, that I couldn't fault her for being so precise in her instructions.
Chotpotti
1 can chickpeas
3 medium to large potatoes, boiled and peeled
4 tablespoons tamarind (found at Indian and Thai grocery stores)
2 teaspoons whole cumin seed
2 teaspoons whole coriander seed
3-4 dry red chilies
1 cup water
salt to taste
2 hard boiled eggs, sliced
1 medium tomato, thinly sliced
1 green chili, minced
2 teaspoons fresh cilantro, minced
-keep boiled potatoes in fridge until cool
-meanwhile soak about two tablespoons worth of tamarind pulp in about 1 cup of hot water
-in a clean, dry, heavy pan, on low heat roast the cumin, coriander and dry chilies until aromatic and then grind in a spice mill or with a mortar and pestal until finely ground; set aside
-using your hands loosen the tamarind within the water and then using a mesh sieve strain out the seeds and skins. You may have to add about a 1/4 cup more until all the pulp is free of the skins; set liquid aside after discarding skins and seeds
-once the potatoes have cooled cut them into uniform cubes, about the size of the chickpeas
-add the chickpeas, potatoes, spices (reserving 1/2 teaspoon), water and tamarind liquid into large, heavy pot and bring to a boil
-turn down heat to medium and simmer for 15 minutes, stirring occasionally, until water has reduced, but very little liquid remains
-pour mixture into serving dish and arrange, onion, egg, green chili, tomato, and cilantro over top
-can be eaten warm or cold


